Let me clarify the title.  By reluctant reader, I mean someone who is not inclined to read...not someone who cannot read.  By this I mean, my son is an advanced reader.  He reads well above his grade level...I am not sure to what level.  However, he does not really like to read.  Oh, he reads in the car and when I assign him a book to read, but it is not his choice to read.  He'd rather build with legos or....well....that's about it.  He occasionally plays a video game.  I believe he is likely gifted.

This is how I think his brain works.  He is very analytical.  He can pick out even the most obscure patterns and he excels at math.  His brain is constantly working and putting things together.  Because of this, he is very good at grammar because it is all about breaking down a sentence and putting it in it's parts.  He's great at writing poetry because he can make patterns with words.  He is great at reading because he can figure out how words are formed and what they mean in context.  

So, I am constantly trying to find that book that will hook him...will make him want to sit and read.  I know some people are just not readers, but I also recognize the value of reading.

So, I would like some suggestions and advice on this subject.  I am looking for suggestions on books to read to capture him (no magic treehouse...been there, done that....and nothing too young...he's 7, but his level of reading is much higher) and advice on the subject of one book series that seems to grab the most reluctant of readers...Harry Potter.

Ok, so here's the deal with Harry Potter and our family...we have spent years avoiding the topic.  I have pretty strong objections to the subject matter of the book...and would like to know your opinions whether they agree with me or not.  I want to make an informed decision to whether to get the books for my son.  So, here are my thoughts on Harry Potter and please feel free to comment below on your opinions:

  • The first "elephant in the room" thing for me, personally, is the most obvious thing.  The witchcraft and sorcery.  I rather not go there with my family.  Ok...I know it is fiction.  Kids cannot go flying on broomsticks.  I am concerned of what this may open with my kids, though.  I do not want them getting an interest in this subject.  I know after the books first became popular, kids began dressing as wizards and finding more and more about majic and I know God says very plainly in the bible that we are not to tinker with such things.  Am I too sensitive to that??
  • I have heard recently that Rowling is very anti-christian.  I'm not sure I can support that??  Does she put any of her agenda in her writing, even subtly?
  • I know there is the clear line of good versus evil and I am not against this scenario.  AND, I struggle with my love of Lord of the Rings which is also good versus evil, with one of the lead good guys as a sorcerer.  I know Tolkein's intent, though, was a Christian parallel.  I doubt Rowling's was.  But, should that exclude the book from the list?  Daniel reads book without a Christian intent all the time.


I am serious about wanting input on book suggestions as well as Harry Potter advice both pro and con.  I encourage you to comment on here versus my facebook page so others can read your wise words and can get a better idea on the subject.     
10/16/2012 02:57:12 am

Sandra, I have not read the Potter series, but I plan to. Rowling describes herself as a Christian, but supports some liberal, no-Christian causes such as gay marriage. With that said, you might appreciate the article my friend, Dr. Holly Ordway, has written about this. She is a literary scholar and a Christian apologist. Here is the article: http://www.hieropraxis.com/2010/12/harry-potter-twilight-and-other-fantasy-what-should-christians-read/

Another series that has been a big hit at my house is Fablehaven. It's a modern fantasy with fairies, nyads, and other mythical creatures. I've only seen one objectionable statement in the series so far, and it is very mild.

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Sandra Kozlowski
10/16/2012 06:08:51 am

Thanks!! Will read the article when I get home!!

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10/16/2012 02:58:52 am

Meant to say "non-Christian" not "no-Christian." Oops. :)

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Katrina
10/16/2012 03:03:54 am

You are spot on with your definition of a reluctant reader! I have had two- one that just didn't want to read, and one that didn't want to read anything non fiction....the latter is much easier to deal with and makes this momma quite proud actually! :) I struggled with the same issues with HP as well, and am honestly not sure how far I will allow them to read in the series as of yet. We have certainly been talking a lot about what witchcraft is and sorcery etc. I personally think it is not much different than allowing them to watch anything else that is not reality. Even Super Why (the 3 year olds favorite show) is not real and could be questionable by some. I am interested in the authors views on christianity (I had not even considered that), but I am the first to admit that I don't research every actor, author, or writer that we encounter in TV, book, cartoon, etc... I do think it is definately a choice of parents (not a bad vs. good parent thing....rather a child based decision). I know children who are older than mine that believe there are real ghost busters (as in the Dan Akroid type) and that Transformers are real. I don't know that as their parent (if they were my own) I would want them to read HP (or much else fiction for that matter) if they had a hard time distinguishing reality from fiction and true make believe. I think you make some good points and I think I will research it some more :)

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Sandra Kozlowski
10/16/2012 06:10:23 am

Sierra said now shed interested in reading them!! I had a healthy debate with Matt about it. I ended up checking out two copies of book 1....one for Daniel and one for Sierra!

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Sandra Kozlowski
10/16/2012 06:16:25 am

She's interested, not shed....dang iPhone keyboard!

Stacy McCabe
10/16/2012 03:41:23 am

You may have already tried him on the Chronicles of Narnia series but if you haven't I suggest those. We are doing those as a read aloud and my boys are loving it.
I agree it is hard to find good books that are wholesome.

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Sandra Kozlowski
10/16/2012 06:11:37 am

I am more looking for independent free time reading. Daniel will start Narnia in a few months that will be independent reeding, but also required for literature!

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Sandra Kozlowski
10/16/2012 06:17:13 am

Reading not reeding! When using my iPhone, I must be better about proof reading!

stacey
10/16/2012 07:38:54 am

what order are you reading narnia?- i've seen two trains of thought on how it should be read....

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Sandra
10/16/2012 07:41:39 am

I have asked my Narnia friends...the ones who are purest about it. They say it should be read as Lewis intended...starting with The Lion, The Witch and the Wardrobe. That is where we will start when we do!

Katrina
10/18/2012 02:43:46 am

Interesting. We started with Magician's nephew...but now I am seeing that this was not actually the first written. It has been a struggle to get thru and we have picked it up several times and still going on a year! Very frustrating. Maybe we will just "skip" to the Lion, Witch, and The Wardrobe :) I saw this while researching....http://www.narniaweb.com/resources-links/in-what-order-should-the-narnia-books-be-read/

Katrina
10/16/2012 05:15:08 am

I loved the podcast! I think every parent should listen! We are still reading the chronicles of Narnia. I wish the family would re write them in modern english for the younger readers. They are magnificent!!! Have you seen the young reader version of the Left Behind series??

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10/16/2012 05:24:31 am

Katrina, Corban is reading through the Narnia series independently for his literature class. We use the study guides on the C.S. Lewis society's website. He's on Prince Caspian right now. The study guides have vocabulary guides. I actually don't like the idea of them being re-written. I think that would be Lewis blasphemy! LOL I will admit that I have been very impatient for Corban to become old enough to read them because they are so wonderful. I have seen the young readers Left Behind, but I disagree with the theology of the adult version, so I haven't checked into them very much.

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Katrina
10/16/2012 05:45:28 am

Thanks Melissa! I wanted to read the left behind series first and then suggest them to riley....maybe ;) I would only suggest the Narnia series being rewritten just so they are more readily read by more people (yes, that is terrible grammar!!!). I would be leary of anyone rewriting them other than family or his society. I love the study guide idea....even for myself!!!! I saw the left behind series at church. I have been quite amazed at what we have found in the church library! There was a signed copy of a science book that started out with a poem thanking Darwin for his solution on Evolution! Oh yes, this momma let them know about it!

Sandra Kozlowski
10/16/2012 06:12:50 am

What do you disagree with?? I am highly curious. I am not a fan of the books myself...I read all of the adult books until 1/4 into the last one when I finally threw my hands up in disgust!

stacey
10/16/2012 07:39:52 am

melissa- what order are you reading narnia?- i've seen two trains of thought on how it should be read....

10/16/2012 05:25:30 am

And I'm SO glad you liked the podcast!

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stacey
10/16/2012 05:43:09 am

alden too is a very high level reader, but a reluctant one. he is reading the beverly cleary fudge series- i feel it is below his reading level but he finds it funny, so it works for us.
i have not yet read the hp books, i am not against alden reading them- he has seen the movies- he just chooses not to read them. he is interested in reading the chronicles of narnia, so i think that will be our next purchase. he also wants to read the hunger games. again, he has seen the movie. i fear it may be too long for him though, but level wise it would work. so, i am not sure about that one. i have thought about the youth left behind for alden, however, i have not read the youth version myself and that is something i would like to read first so we could discuss it.
here is my question for you: in a previous blog post you mentioned watching walking dead as a family, does that include daniel?

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Katrina
10/16/2012 05:52:00 am

I wouldn't worry about him reading below his level. It's all relative anyhow. If he enjoys it let him- that is the key to a reluctant reader! Riley giggles at a lot of "little kid" books as he calls them!!!

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Sandra Kozlowski
10/16/2012 06:15:34 am

Yes, he does watch it!! He thinks its cool and thought the premiere was awesome!! Lol!! So, why let him watch that and object to HP? I guess having pagan and Wiccan beliefs in my own family makes me more weary. WD is so fictional, but witchcraft is a practice many people get sucked into!

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stacey
10/16/2012 07:21:24 am

that's where i was going with my question. if he watches WD, then why not read/ watch HP. but, if God leaves a conviction on your heart, then you have to follow it. for instance, we dress up for halloween and trick or treat, but we don't celebrate santa claus. that doesn't make sense to me, but it is what God has instructed me to do, so i do it.
pray about it. God will give you the answer.

stacey
10/16/2012 07:21:30 am

that's where i was going with my question. if he watches WD, then why not read/ watch HP. but, if God leaves a conviction on your heart, then you have to follow it. for instance, we dress up for halloween and trick or treat, but we don't celebrate santa claus. that doesn't make sense to me, but it is what God has instructed me to do, so i do it.
pray about it. God will give you the answer.

Sandra Kozlowski
10/16/2012 07:40:18 am

We dress up for Halloween but don't do Santa. lol Sierra stated it best, I think. It should be a case by case basis. If your kid is likely to read it and take it for fact and try to become a wizard, than probably not the book for your kid. But, if your kid can read it and see it for what it is...entertainment, than why not. I really think I am uber sensitive due to the history in my family. I have to have faith that the foundation has been laid, though. Funny, Daniel has no interest in it (but I want him to try it to see if he will get engaged in it), but Sierra is interested. lol

As for Santa and Halloween...for us it is simple. We do not want to have any distrust with our kids. We want to be honest with them. So, we choose to tell the truth about holidays. Halloween is about having fun...getting candy. Santa isn't real and no fat guy in a suit is taking credit for the gifts we put under the tree!! ;-)

stacey
10/16/2012 09:38:37 am

*correction- judy blume wrote the fudge series. he read the beverly cleary ralph mouse series first.

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Brooke
10/16/2012 07:14:18 am

My son reads "Seekers" and my daughter reads "Warriors" series both by Erin Hunter and at the library. One is about bears and the other cats and each child does not like to read the others. Interesting since to me they are both animals :)

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Sandra Kozlowski
10/16/2012 07:42:59 am

Daniel isn't into animal books. He likes people. I think he will like adventure books.

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10/16/2012 07:42:44 am

Stacey, we began with The Magician's Nephew. I really cannot imagine NOT reading that one first! I know some people begin with Wardrobe, but that's weird in my opinion. Narnia's creation should come first!

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